DOB
it is a protocol to check with the conscious, oriented patient, what is his/her birthday is before putting the ID band. to verify the identification. what gives me the creeps is that somebody told me once (or did i read it somewhere?) that people usually die a couple of days or weeks before or after their birthday.
this explains why i am freaking out everytime i check a patient’s birthday, and it turns out that it was yesterday, or that it will be next week…sometimes, the paranoia gets so overwhelming, i would rather not check. only, i am one of those RNs with OCD who try to stick to the protocol if i can.
i have to stop myself from telling the patient: “so mr. S…you will be 78 this coming saturday, i’m afraid i need to remind you to reconsider your will before you go through with that surgery”. i know what you’re thinking…it must be horrible having me for a nurse.
i did a little research this morning…walked around a cemetery just a couple of blocks from our house. i regret doing it. now, i’m almost beyond paranoid.aprroximately 50-60 of the people in there died on the month they were born!
but then again…it was just a small cemetery.


Hi,
Not crazy- I’ve been a nurse for almost 12 years- I started noticing patterns years ago and it got me looking at obits to see how often it happened. I heard from someone a long time ago (before nursing)that people usually died close to the date (#) they were born. Like my grandmother’s birthday was the 14th and she died on the 11th. I see it a lot. A friend, born on the the 1st, died the 31st. Strange
and a little creepy.
Comment by RN mom — February 4, 2007 @ 5:20 am