two much
“after two months of trying! i’m so happy! i finally gained weight!”
i am totally visual, and there is really no evidence to this joyful expression, so i eyed her suspiciously and tried to figure out where those gained pounds were hiding. maybe, the loose scrub tops was sort of camouflaging the supposedly obvious reason for this news. i continued to eye her, to no avail. unable to contain my cluelessness, i asked : “how many pounds?”
“TWO!”
now tell me, is there any reason why i should not hate this woman? i can’t think of anything either. so i told her to shut up and leave me alone. she thought it was a joke that i was dismissing her, so she continued to relate how she started doing my advise of eating at least three times a day, and she can’t believe how simple it was, and how it worked. if she was not one of those co-workers i can almost call a friend, i could have restrained her big mouth.
i can totally gain two pounds just by looking at pictures of food. and she has to TRY for TWO WHOLE MONTHS?
what is this, a joke?
it wasn’t, and she was really ecstatic, and excited, hoping that in the next two months, she can gain 2 pounds more, so she can reach her goal of gaining 5 pounds. she was very optimistic about her future in the weight gain department.
on the other hand, to say that i am pessimistic about my future in the weight loss department is the decade’s understatement. i’m stuck at going up and down, up and down, up and down (yeah, like a real yoyo) on the last 25 pounds i need to loose after two babies turned me into an insatiable, pregnant glutton who acted like it was the law of the land to gain 40 pounds with every pregnancy. and i know, it is not an excuse that they are just 18 months apart. thanks for pointing that out. yeah, my youngest is 22 months old now, thanks for asking. what’s funny?
what is wrong with this world? that’s what i’m asking.
tell me, should i just go home to my own planet, where people who find it hard to gain 5 pounds are placed in a really stinky jail and later executed, or should i stay here on earth for awhile and make the lives of people like them miserable?
to quote the great napoleon dynamite: “what would YOU do in a situation like this?”


I figure it’s like being overweight, only in reverse. Perhaps her doctor has been making dire threats of making her drink a Boost three times a day if she doesn’t put a little meat on those bones of hers.
I know I’d be afraid of being forced to drink Boosts. Eugh.
Comment by Kirstin — June 29, 2006 @ 9:02 am
HEY! i have a cold strawberry boost for breakfast every day!!
Comment by libby — June 29, 2006 @ 10:25 am
man that is hilarious! i think the stinky jail works - maybe force feed her a friendly’s reese pieces sundae. then the whole “shut up, you are bothering me and i don’t really like you anyways.” too blunt?
Comment by kt — June 29, 2006 @ 10:30 am
I’d stuff her mouth so full of chocolate chip cookies she can’t talk anymore.
Comment by Lisa — June 29, 2006 @ 6:10 pm
What would I do? Hit upside the head with my slice of pizza and tell her to pass me my donuts.
She wants to gain weight? Let the skinny thing come stay with me for a day. I can gain 5 pounds by lunchtime. She should have no problem.
Comment by kimmyk — June 30, 2006 @ 2:16 am
I’d say something like, “Oh yeah, well, I just gained two pounds in two minutes! Why did it take you two stinking months!”
People like this get me so frustrated! Where are my M&Ms?
BTW, thanks for the blogroll! I’ll do the same…
Comment by Dr. A — June 30, 2006 @ 10:53 am
Perhaps I am too simplistic in my analysis of this complex psychosocial interaction, but personally I would have killed the bitch and taken her Oreos all for myself.
But that’s just me.
Comment by shrimplate — June 30, 2006 @ 4:28 pm
I think you should tell her that you think her face is getting fat. Tell her that all 2 pounds must have went to her face. Let her drive herself nuts looking for it in the mirror all day.
Comment by Cathy — June 30, 2006 @ 11:53 pm
BTW, like Dr. A. said, thanks for the blogroll, I’ve already added you…:)
Comment by Cathy — June 30, 2006 @ 11:56 pm
If I knew that she suffered from anorexia nervosa or had been deathly ill, I would applaud her weight gain. But if she was perfectly healthy, I would tell her to shut the f%&* up. Well, no I wouldn’t, but I would think it.
Comment by Melissa — July 1, 2006 @ 10:18 am
Oh dear…I’m going to be the voice of dissent. When I was at Penn State, there was one year where illness caused my weight to drop to 100 pounds even. It finally bottomed out when I was in the ICU for said illness and the dietician came to talk to me about Boost shakes. I did drink them…3 strawberry ones a day. I promptly gained 8 pounds in 2 weeks and have never dropped that low since.
THAT being said…one of the worst things about that whole thing was the fact that two of my roommates were Weight Watcher’s fanatics. They were point counting every single thing and blabbing everywhere about every ounce they lost. If I took a chocolate pudding out of the fridge, they’d scream just how many points I was eating.
But hello….I was having one hell of a time gaining weight to the point where I ended up having to drink the dreaded Boost shakes. I was throwing up from severe nausea every day, so I would have liked to have eaten my food in peace….
It can go too far the other way, too… :-/
Comment by Carrie — July 1, 2006 @ 2:00 pm
I think there is discrimination against people who are underweight. I mean how many products are being advertised on how to gain weight? How many diets are there for weight gain? It took me 10 years to reach my ideal BMI
Comment by Rygel — July 1, 2006 @ 10:43 pm
When I was dorming, it was so easy to maintain weight. Now that I’m at home, there’s so much food, that gaining weight is too easy. 2 lbs?!?! Come on now…
Comment by Mackarus — July 2, 2006 @ 12:02 am
it’s hard to hear about how someone is trying to gain weight when you are struggling to lose it. for me, once i started working out, i started craving healthier foods, and the weight started to slowly fall off.
Comment by marj — July 2, 2006 @ 2:19 pm
you funny writer. ha ha.
Comment by Dustin — July 4, 2006 @ 11:20 am