ups and Down’s
patient C has that familiar face, familiar look. he has Down’s syndrome. admitted for respiratory distress, he had this episodes of really bad cough, i felt sorry for him. everytime i suctioned his secretions, it felt like his tracheostomy tube will come out. to make matters worse, i just increased the rate of his tube feeding and although he seemed to tolerate it, he was slightly nauseated at the beginning of the shift.
he kept me busy, but he was “very cute”, i ignored my aching legs. in his early 30s, he still looked like an angel. and if there was something he knew best, it was to smile. his face lighted up everytime i entered the room. his smiles were only interrupted by the coughing. he made my difficult night a lot easier. his smiles so innocent it made me feel so appreciated.
five rooms away from him were two of my other patients. both in their mid 80s, both depressingly loosing their marbles, i felt sorry for them.
patient A would scream for the cops, “GET THE POLICE! NOW! YOU ARE TRYING TO KILL ME WHILE CORPSES ARE ON THE FLOOR? WHAT RIGHT DO YOU HAVE TO KEEP THE CORPSES ALIVE, AND YOU WANT ME DEAD?”
what?
patient B would call every five minutes and say: “i had a heart surgery, and i understand the doctor left a list of instructions on a paper so i will not bleed. are you following his instructions closely? am i bleeding?”
what?
patient A calls and asks: “WHAT IS THAT DEAD BODY DOING IN THAT BED?”
to which patient B responds: “i am not dead, i just had heart surgery.”
“CALL THE POLICE! NOW! DON’T JUST STAND THERE AND LOOK, MOVE! NOW!”
they both needed my attention every so often, i eventually ended up just grabbing a chair, and sitting outside their room to make sure they didn’t “kill” each other with their words and confusion.
when both ladies finally fell into the slow but short effect of the sleeping pillls, i was exhausted. i was not only physically drained, but i was terrified at the thought of my future. i wondered if reaching the ripe age of 80 is worth it. these ladies’ condition made me sad and weary. i didn’t want to turn 80. alive, yet unaware of the joys i am supposed to enjoy. but then again, it boggled me. how do i do that?
it was a tiring night to say the least. the only thing that kept me going was patient C’s smile. the smile of innocence that made me realize that balance makes sense. i smiled back at him.
i know it must be a heartbreaking thing for parents to find out that their child has Down’s syndrome, but they must be thrilled to find out later that these kids’ warm and loving nature is like a sip of ice cold lemonade on a really hot summer day.
well, maybe even better than lemonade really. besides, summer’s just a memory. except, i can’t think of another form of simile. but, you know what i mean.


May, that’s a really beautiful story. I’m sorry about the 2 older ladies. How sad that this is what we have to look forward to. I’m glad that the young man had you as his nurse!
Comment by cathy — October 25, 2006 @ 7:45 pm
On the flip side of these 80 year old ladies are the ones that are still so sharp. Although rarer. I had a 88 year old woman this week that was really into politics and the upcoming elections. But I agree, getting old is not something I look forward to.
Comment by annemiek — October 26, 2006 @ 5:24 am
they are beautiful angels. sweet innocent wonderful people. i know what you mean about heading into the 80s. i want my mind to stay put.
Comment by kt — October 26, 2006 @ 8:32 am
When we [honey and I] were younger we’d volunteer at a group home for mentally challenged adults and I’m telling you-those guys there brought the biggest smiles and warmed my heart. I miss them. They’re so loving…
Now the 2 ladies? Oh my gosh. It’s like a tennis match.
Comment by kimmyk — October 26, 2006 @ 4:00 pm
When I was a nursing student, I worked at a summer camp for Down’s syndrome kids. It was the best summer of my life. They are God’s angels on earth.
MJ
Comment by Mother Jones RN — October 27, 2006 @ 4:24 pm
I live for the day when I can scream.. “Hey, I used to be a nurse!”.. Just kidding.. I think…
I can deal much better with people who are very sick than the ones that are crazier than loons.. I don’t mind the cute “fuzzy” ones but I’m always worrying about the fall potentials.. Makes it emotionally draining..
Comment by NPs Save Lives — October 28, 2006 @ 7:10 pm