December 25, 2006, 9:16 am
christmas morning
gifts were opened. cookies were eaten.
the little boys’ screams and laughters were recorded.
hope your christmas morning was as exciting.
off to bed now, after two nights of working.
your thoughts on my previous post still welcome…
Merry Christmas May!
Comment by kimmyk — December 25, 2006 @ 3:29 pm
A couple of thoughts. First, this is not normal. While he might not have a physical problem, there is obviously some sort of emotional issue here. Could be an orientation issue - perhaps he though marriage would “cure” him? Also, There are people who suffer from sexual anorexia. There are many sexual disorders out there that have nothing to do with ED. Could be that he’s having an affair or that he’s got some sort of sexual addiction as is fine with getting his jollies with porn or other stimulation. Have her check her temporary internet files on the computer. Also, do a search on cookies and hit the internet history button too. See what comes up. The hardest thing for your friend is that he’s in total denial. She can’t do ANYTHING unless he’s willing to open up. She’s got to decide how long she’s willing to live with a lack of communication. Which is really a bigger issue than the lack of sexual contact. The longer he goes on silent, the bigger this problem will become.
Comment by Elena — December 25, 2006 @ 3:34 pm
Hi May:
I’m on break at work, so I thought I’d drop by to wish you a Merry Christmas.
MJ
Comment by motherjonesrn — December 25, 2006 @ 7:55 pm
Merry Christmas, May! and a Blessed New Year!
Comment by Rygel — December 26, 2006 @ 7:28 am
Happy holidays May!
Comment by ferdz — December 26, 2006 @ 4:58 pm
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year May!
Comment by drei — December 27, 2006 @ 3:58 am