there’s this guy
i can spend the whole day talking about frustrating incidents that involved the pharmacy and the clinical lab. incidents and encounters that caused my blood pressure to shoot up and tested my patience.
i will not elaborate on those incidents, because i am aware i have no right to question a system that i have very limited understanding of. why, sometimes, it takes the pharmacy 1-2 hours to send a med is completely beyond my understanding. why, sometimes, it takes more than 3 hours for the clinical lab to process a blood test is also beyond my limited understanding.
needless to say, there are a lot of instances wherein, if the RNs don’t spend time calling, following up, on either a med or a blood draw/test result we end up telling the oncoming RN on shift change that “this med has not been started, this lab has not been drawn, this drip has not been changed, etc etc etc” because lab and pharmacy did not do what they were expected to do, in the expected time frame.
for the most part, i understand reports like that, and cut the outgoing RNs the needed slack, because i know first hand how the whole system sucks. i say the same thing when i have no choice, so it’s really no big deal sometimes.
but, and this is a big BUT: there are nurses who take advantage of this situation and use it as an excuse for literally being incompetent. hate is a strong word, but that’s how i feel towards nurses who literally milk the system. the thing that irritates me most is the fact that the patient loses in this situation. of course, next to that, i equally hate it that i have to suffer the consequences by dealing with other people’s anger.
yesterday, at exactly 1900, when i just finished taking report, i got a call from the doctor following up a result of a patient’s phosphorus level. i told her the blood was not drawn yet, because the med that was ordered to correct the low phosphorus level was not given yet. since the order for blood draw was an hour after the med was given, she knew it was reasonable why the blood was not drawn yet.
in all honesty, i did not blame her when she started lashing out on me. the med was ordered at 1100!
the AM RN, a habitual “i have not given any of these meds because the pharmacy has not sent them yet; the blood is not drawn yet because lab never showed up” kind of guy, was still in the unit when the whole phone conversation took place.
this is not something personal, but i totally hate the way this guy tries to get away with everything just by using a “legitimate” excuse. if i may be so blunt, i will say without flinching that he is the perfect definition of lazy and honestly, that would even be putting it nicely.
anyway, after a lot of instances in the past where i had to deal with angry doctors, disappointed family members, and frustrated patients after taking report from him, it just got too much, and i told him so.
looking back, i wish i could have been more professional by facing him and telling him in a calmer voice that i hated the fact that his laziness was getting so annoying to me and was so unfair to the patients, but i didn’t.
we exchanged unhappy words in the middle of the unit, separated by the ice machine, with a few people listening. no, i didn’t tell him the obvious, that he was just plain lazy, but i told him the list of possible things he could have done, so the med could have been given on time. as expected, he was defensive, and used every excuse in the book to get away with it. tired of listening to him, i called pharmacy to double check, intending to give them a piece of my mind, but kept quiet when i was told the med was sent hours ago. all this time, he was standing there, listening to me and nonverbally saying “they never sent it!” i told him the pharmacy tech said it was already sent hours ago.
just when i was ready to forget the whole blaming game and move on, the gods of irony intervened. i don’t know what moved him, but he started looking around and just before i stepped out of the unit to go to the pharmacy to get a replacement for the missing med, he found the med in question in a tube, sitting in the unit for hours, just like the pharmacy tech said. he wanted to say more, but i had enough. i grabbed the med, went straight to the patient’s room, and gave it.
i regret this now, but i was just too frustrated to face him and at the same time tell him how sick and tired i am of how sloppy he does his job. it didn’t matter that those who heard the exchange knew i was right, i just wish i have been more professional in dealing with him.
how i could have done that when i was boiling with anger, i still have to figure out.
i still don’t understand the whole “there are certain people that just rub you the wrong way” statement, but i do know he not only rubs me the wrong way, but he does it perfectly well too.
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thank you all for your kind words.
to those who drop by here for something more positive, i apologize that this blog has mainly been a whining/ranting space lately. as it turns out, you suffer the consequence of me being unable to afford a professional therapist.
thank you for letting me sit/lie on your couch.


I find myself regreting conversations like the one you described here. However, you may have been more effective than you think.
Just remember that you were yelling at a coworker who was putting people in harm by his sloth.
You were not yelling at someone because they left the toilet seat up…you know?
Chin up!
Comment by Kristen — August 7, 2008 @ 4:27 pm
thanks kristen. to clarify, i wasn’t yelling. my voice was just so angry. that doesn’t mean i didn’t want to yell, because i really wanted to. it was just not the right place
what i wanted to change about the whole situation was that i could have talked to him face to face, instead of acting like a scared little girl, talking to him while hiding behind the ice machine like i should be ashamed he was lazy.
Comment by may — August 7, 2008 @ 4:47 pm
That guy sounds like an idiot. Even if the way you dealt with him wasn’t 100% nice or proper, it doesn’t mean he didn’t deserve it.
Comment by Eva — August 7, 2008 @ 8:53 pm
I can’t say I will never do the same. I hope that “that nurse” learns from this experience.
Comment by Karin, RN — August 7, 2008 @ 10:20 pm
there’s this guy
i can spend the whole day talking about frustrating incidents that involved the pharmacy and the clinical lab. incidents and encounters that caused my blood pressure to shoot up and tested my patience.
Trackback by Healthcare Today — August 8, 2008 @ 4:36 am
I think there is (at least) one person like that in every hospital. I know of several in my unit alone. They stare at you with that wide eyed deer in the headlights look when you ask why something wasn’t done or suggest another way it could have been handled. One sad thing I have noticed is that they are the people that work the most, filling in the scheduling holes, so management doesn’t like to do anything about it for fear that they will be less likely to work all those extra shifts.
Yes, the patient is the one that ultimately suffers by receiving sub-standard care. If that had been me, I would have filed an event form because meds are expected to be given within 2 hours of the order being written. If there is a delay longer than that and no follow up from the RN, there clearly is a learning need and once an event form is filed there must be documented follow up. It’s not to get someone in trouble, it’s to make sure they have the education they need and hold them accountable for the care, or lack there of, they provide.
Although I am sorry to hear you had to deal with that, it is nice (or sad) to know the problem is not unique to my hospital. We have the same issues with the lab and pharmacy too. And, it’s not complaining. It’s called venting and it is necessary to keep your sanity and keep doing this job.
So, don’t beat yourself up, he needed to be talked to and he was lucky it was you and not someone else! It doesn’t wound like you were unprofessional and he had to know that was hard for you because you don’t go around confronting people all the time. Hopefully you will see a change in him.
Keep up the great writing!
Comment by mn rn — August 8, 2008 @ 4:58 am
geesh..i also have a version of this. guess it’s true when they say that “nobody would know what kind of life a nurse has unless they become one”. hope you wont mind me adding you on my blogroll. it feel nice to find someone that could i relate with. hehe! have a nice day!
*nina
Comment by ninyakin — August 8, 2008 @ 5:57 am
We have all been there, and done that unfortunately.
I think the only thing that you could have done was just skipped the convo with him and when you found the med in the tube, you could have approached him in smugness to explain his ‘lack there-of’ work.
All in all, the most aggravating thing about those situations is that somehow YOU look like the lazy one when the doctor questions the mistake??
Don’t ya just hate that.
:)
Comment by Strong One — August 8, 2008 @ 6:19 am
No charge for sitting on our couch. Our prescription: Keep writing your excellent blog. Thanks.
Comment by sid leavitt — August 8, 2008 @ 7:15 am
i worked as a medtech before… i don’t really know why it takes that long to process blood tests (especially those that are regularly requested) - 2 hours should be enough for most. I think if the lab processed specimens immediately, they would appear to be under the control of the floors - just an opinion
Comment by rygel — August 8, 2008 @ 2:40 pm
may:
I know the feeling. At the last place I worked, I told the pharmacists to hold the drug at the pharmacy and I would get it.
It meant leaving the unit for a moment, but since they were literally one floor away directly below our unit, I refused to wait for their deliveries, which involved starting on the top floor, then coming to us when they were done….at the end.
It was a pain, but I also picked up stuff for my coworkers while I was there.
Besides, I could run down there in about two minutes, barring no globs of people in the hallway.
Comment by RehabRN — August 9, 2008 @ 4:59 am
Wow… a very distressing experience for you and equally distressing comments about similar experiences from other experienced nurses. I am in reality shock.
I am a new graduate RN and have worked about a month in orientation on the unit. Last week was the worst so far. I told the charge nurse I had taken the last meds and they needed to be reordered from pharmacy. I offered to do it but needed instruction. The next day…they hadn’t been ordered. Meds would be late - AGAIN. I snapped - didn’t say anything, just excused myself to gather my thoughts. Then I asked the nurse manager to transfer me to another unit for the day.
I thought that perhaps I was expecting too much…you know…for others to be as committed to their work as I am. And then I found your post. Thank you for sharing. You are the type of nurse who could show any graduate how to do things properly. You could say you are a nurse who is committed to doing the right thing, at the right time, for the right patient, and for all the right reasons.
OK, so you didn’t respond the way you would have liked…it is understandable…you had just had enough. It may have been the proverbial straw that broke the camel’s back….and that’s okay too. I’m sure everyone who knows you also knows the other guy. Maybe they’ve experienced the same frustrations with his lack of professionalism, commitment, and respect for his patients and co-workers.
I am a new graduate nurse. I recently learned a few important personal lessons. Eat, don’t get eaten. Ask, don’t guess. Speak up. Don’t hide… and most of all… keep learning.
I have to keep reminding myself…I am a compassionate new nurse. I am committed and show empathy to my patients. I know SOMETHING…enough to graduate nursing school with honors…enough to pass the NCLEX on the first try. I may know a little more than that..but only time and experience will tell.
Thank you for sharing. I don’t feel so alone anymore.
Comment by Deb — August 9, 2008 @ 3:52 pm
There are nurses who check the tube system for incoming meds and stuff, and there are nurses who don’t.
You can tell when somebody just isn’t making the expected little extra efforts to make things go along.
There have been times when I may have been politely asking such a person for a little help with something, but the invisible cartoon word-balloon over my head was filled with rancorous obscenities. I’m sure you know exactly what I mean.
Comment by shrimplate — August 10, 2008 @ 9:54 am
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When I hear your story about this guy…I am reminded of the saying “common sense isn’t all that common”. Nursing is a tough profession and having a co-worker dump their work load on others can cause spontaneous combustion…so don’t feel bad. I have known people in my career that spend more effort trying to get out of work than the effort it takes to actually do the job.
Comment by Mike Emery — August 12, 2008 @ 11:00 am
I empathize with your plight. I think every nurse (good nurse) that has been at the bedside for any length of time can share a similar story. Some guy, some gal, the bottom line is as you put it they are lazy.
With respect to losing your cool a bit, I don’t blame you. We always wish we could keep our tempers down and be professional. Everyday before work I say to myself aloud on the way in today I am not going to say anything wrong. I have been telling myself that for many years now. It seems that I may never reach my goal of being perfectly professional a work all the time. I work in an ED and sometimes it just kills me with all the nonsense that goes on between other nurses, patients, and doctors. In fact a week a go I told an ED doc I wasn’t his F-ing maid. Not a proud moment for me but I had had enough. He backed off and things are much better now.
Clearly not the way to handle things. I am working on it though.
Comment by Mike — August 15, 2008 @ 4:01 pm